i always thought that when two people break up it means good bye have a good life, for me i'm glad that me and my ex have a good realtionship still and what's even more better is that my boyfirend and ex actually talk which is really nice. it really shows that these two men are mature beside they have nothing against each other. yeh i know its probably be wierd for you to be among your b/f and ex talking but it really wasnt for me. i guess life is good after all, beside we all are happy for each other. this rarely happen to people but we put whats in the past and be civil whats in the future and thats how it works